Upset
Little bro is in love and I'm upset... he fell in love with a girl and she got engaged to someone else right after that ... wasn't able to control his feelings... she was what he dreamed of... he fell in love with her for a reason... for all what she was he loved... wasn't easy for him to forget her because she's a colleague of his... so there she is in front of him ... engaged to another man....
"Allahoma ath-heb 3anho alhamm wal7ozn"
posted by Me @ 2:00 AM
12 Comments:
That's life ,and things like that happens all the time ,there's no details there about your brother's story to discuss it ,but should try to be back on track and live normally ,as a person who has a similar experience I know it's very hard to handle but this is how our characters are shaped during the years ,by the personal experiences we acquire.
Nightlegend,
Thanks... el7amdulilah he is living his life normally and is reaaaaaaaallllly the busy type of guy...I mean he's getting on with his life in a very positive way thank God... just that I feel this issue is there "at the back of his head" if you know what I mean...and yesterday something happened concerning her that pissed me off... so that's why I wrote...
Forgive me for not writing the details.. felt that maybe I shouldn't...
He has to try to occupy his time with anything, and he'll forget her after a while.
It's strange how love can bring so much joy and elation yet bring so much pain and sorrow as well. My best to your brother in dealing with his heartache.
me, was there a sort of relation between both of them ? if not and it was only in him , i Believe it will take him some time to over come it , my dad told me once before what doesn't break me , makes me stronger.
sad story. hope he gets better soon.
if he had no relationship with her, and thus no intimate memories,, i am guessing it will pass quickly ISA. as soon as he gets used to the idea that she is not an option. seems like a romantic guy your bro., falling in love silently does not happen much these days.
Tarek,
You're right... he'll forget her after a while isA ... my brother is one of those people who make you feel 24 hours a day isn't enough... verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry busy with absolutely no free time on his hands...studying Masters, teaching 4 subjects at Uni., and very active in an Engineers Association.. always organising events, workshops, seminars etc ... when he isn't at Uni. or sitting on the PC .. he's on the phone co-ordinating things ... too much actually ... but I guess that's going to help him this period isA :-)
Jane,
Thanks for your kind wishes...I do hope he gets over it as soon as possible ... they say time heals ...
Roora,
I believe in what your dad says... I've tried it personally and I find it true el7amdulilah :)
There wasn't a relation between them in terms of what "relation" means .. I mean they did a lot of work together and dealt with each other a lot ... friendly sort of relation...and that's how he got to see and feel all what made him love her....
Doshar,
His memories with her can't be called "intimate" but he does have memories.. events arranged together... loads of work done together.. things of that sort...the problem is they will continue to deal with each other.. so it won't be easy... but he's a strong guy ... will get over isA...
"falling in love silently does not happen much these days."
Yeah I know ... it's not only that he's romantic though... for my bro .. showing his feelings to a girl means taking a serious step in the relation (meaning like 2erayet fat7a or something of the sort) ... which he was not yet in a position to do ... showing feelings just for the sake of showing them was not an option for him... and I really respect that in him...
Me,
These things are always pure NASEEB. This girl was not his naseeb, someone else is ... Don't worry about him, time will heal his wounds and soon he will find bent el 7alal insha2allah:)
Yeah Wonderer... Sub7an Allah... it's all about naseeb :)
Meme,
"Allahoma ath-heb 3anho alhamm wal7ozn"
Ameen yarab.:)
That's one of my favorite da3was btw. There is also this one:
"Allahuma la sahal ila ma ja3altahu sahlan wanta taj3alu el7uzn in shi'ita sahlan."
Your bro will be fine. Am sure you'll take good care of him until he is.:)
"That's one of my favorite da3was btw"
yea.. me too ...relaxes me keda in a way .. el7amdulilah...
Thanks for the other duaa :)
"Am sure you'll take good care of him until he is.:)"
I'm trying...and he seems ok el7amdulilah..
ATC,
Thanks :)...
"my only concern is that the girl didn't get engaged just to trigger your brother into taking a stop forward!"
Yikes !!! Would people go that far ?!?!?! I mean I can understand "telling" him about a suitor but not actually going and getting engaged !!! But you never know...
Anyway .. thanks for your thoughts... pls do always speak your mind keda :-)
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